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Saturday 2 January 2010

Complaint box

"Ya Allah, kenapalah susah sangat aku nak bahagia nih"

Ops, tu bukan aku yang cakap, tapi itu petikan dialog Tiz Zaqiah (a.k.a Nur Amena) dari cerita Nur Kasih. Cerita penuh sedih dan tak diam dengan mainan emosi. Logic tak logic citer tu pun, berjuta pi tonton gak. So, congrate untuk Khabir Bahtiar dengan team nur kasih.

But nur kasih is not my topic of for today. Dugaan hidup is!.

Everybody (er.. almost all to be precise) spend some time (and some other spent most) of their 24-hour days complaint; how terrible is my situation, the life never fair to me ever and the list of agony in word getting longer than we could imagine.

Complaint does drive our life.
Complaint can release some stress. But they don't, if you complaint too much.
What we need is an emergency exit plan.
We need courage out of uncomfortable life. We need energy to move on and not to waste useless on anger and crying thousand year in agony.
Move on! A short sentences, but meaningful. A simple in words but terribly difficult in life.

Simple thought.
Allah never fail to be fair to anyone. Allah never 'grant' us with something that we can't handle.
I know you know that. Everybody also knows that. This is open secret
But why we seems like ignore this fact when we let emotional overtake our rational? Time to think about it

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15 comments:

sniffa93_aznil4eva said...

manusia mmg camtuh.
suka sgt komplen bila ade benda yg bg kita ta ptt berlaku..

tp sbenanya kita xtau dsebalik apa yg kita keluhkan tuh ada benda baik yg patot kita syukuri..

then lain pulak sebaliknya bila ade benda yg patut kne bersyukur tp kita masih xpuas ati lagi kan..

betul! Allah xkan bg dugaan yg hambaNYA xmampu tanggung..

nothing happen with no reason rite?

cik EPAL said...

Allah never fail to be fair to anyone. Allah never 'grant' us with something that we can't handle.


i laikk :)

~Cik S~ said...

i like dis post..people, STOP complaining n play SYUKUR in our heart starting from now...

GhOsToNe said...

biaselew ujian Allah..tabahlew hadapinyew!

Husna Hadzarami said...

do not let the emotion clouds the judgment. be positive always, and u would attract all positive things towards yourself. it is called, THE LAW OF ATTRACTION.

p.s: pelik dengan manusia yg banyak complaint..

intan.maisarah said...

^^

stop judging others, n stop complaining..

setiap yang berlaku..ada hikmah nye kan?

AJ Nismihan said...

sniffa93_aznil4eva
Yup. Nothing happen with no reason. Same goes to us. We not born without reasong too!

cik EPAL
Thanks. I take it as compliment. Nothing typed without 'HIS' granted too!

::Cik S:: (shaznaz)
Thanks. Maybe we cant stop it completely (that is norm as human), but we should guide them at the right way. on the right path. maybe dont call it complaint, but 'mengadu dan berserah' to the Almaighty (Allah).

GhOsToNe
that is the main reason the obstacle come to our life. the come for us to overcome!

Husna Hadzarami
THE LAW OF ATTRACTION! Thats sound great!
Anyway, nothing weird human to complaint, as human nature is try to get things perfect (in their eyes) although they know, nothing is perfect!

intan.maisarah
Yup, stop judging (without reasons). Take a lesson on every single things happen. Ada hikmahnya :)

[z@ck] said...

daripada kuat complaint..baik fikir napa Allah bagi dugaan macam tu dekat kita..ada hikmah di sebalik kejadian.

jgn asyik nak salahkan org lain saja bila ditimpa masalah.

kebahagiaan akan muncul jua.percayalah

░♥si lampu neon♥░ said...

kerana iman masih lagi lemah. nak menyalahkan dunia yang penuh dengan cabaran, padahal itu adalah lumrah.

iman yangtak kuat boleh buat kita bodoh dan buta, sebab tu tak reti nak bersyukur, and asyik komplen saja.. ;(

aku la insan tu.hurm..

AJ Nismihan said...

[z@ck]
betul kata hang tuh. find the weak point within our self then take necessary step to move forward. Love it or not, the best solution will come from our strong heart. firm with our believe, and take necessary step, then we going to found the solution. Allah want us to make our pray to HIM, and Allah willingly to give us solution then.

░♥si lampu neon♥░
Siapa si bodoh itu?
Si bodoh adalah insan yang tak belajar dari kejatuhan dan tak reti nak ambik kisah dengan kejadian.
Kalau pun kita bodoh dan buta (and i dont think you are!) kita masih belum terlambat untuk bangun.
Selagi Allah bagi kita jalan untuk hidup, pasti ada jalan untuk kita pulang.
I believe you did your part to survive from that crash, and glad to know you getting better day by day!

░♥si lampu neon♥░ said...

ayat MOVE ON, or MOVE FORWARD tu perkara yang paling susah nak lakukan bila tgh down. minda mati, langkah terhenti.

mereka kata, hey kau sila maju setapak ke depan! setapak je lagi!kau mesti boleh.

apa yang aku reti sebut? susah, tak boleh, taknak. hurm, macam sampah gak la..

AJ Nismihan said...

Kalau tak susah bukan dugaan namanya
Kalau senang, baik Allah tak bagi cobaan tu dekat kita
Contoh macam nih
Seorang cikgu tengah prepare final exam paper.tengah dok mereka soalan.mesti dia akan buat soalan yang agak susah,tapi masih boleh dijawab.
Kalau susah nak mampus, nanti budak gagal,grade turun pening gak nak menjawab dengan kepala-guru
kalau senang, sumer pakat dapat A jer,nanti nak kena menjawab gak 'kenapa soalan senang sangat'.so kena bagi soalan yang 'boleh dijawab'
itu kita.manusia biasa.
Allah lagi lah sempurna.
Allah tahu apa yang boleh dan apa yang tidak.
Yes, one step forward memang susah.sebab susah itu mengundang cabaran.tanpa cabaran hidup nh monotone.hidup monotone bosan.mengantukkan!
so, susah itu lah hidup.susah itu pengorbanan, dan tiap pengorbanan itu baru lahirnya penghargaan. thats what we call appreciation!

sebut lah susah. sebut lah tak nak. you can say loudly that you can[fullstop]! say what ever you want, and let your promising mind cramp into small little thought!
At the other side, only Allah know you can. When the Almighty can yes, but we say cant, are we show some unappreciated?

░♥si lampu neon♥░ said...

huu terimakasih. sekarang ada sikit kesedaran. hihi

i'msosupernotcool said...

simpan-simpan pon x elok kan?
berkulat.. busuk..

AJ Nismihan said...

░♥si lampu neon♥░
ilmu bukan untuk makan sorang :)

i'msosupernotcool
Makanan yang sedap rangup dan ranum pun kalau simpan lama-lama boleh jadi busuk, inikan....